A heterosexual male Analyze the Bachelorette Finale

There may be a contradiction in that title for some men and women. Yes, I watched more episodes I missed of The Bachelorette. This is a fact that does not scream from the rooftops for all my friends to listen. However, I am writing an article on the internet. Vai figure.

Let me preface the rest of this article by saying that I watched the show, if my wife had not been so enthusiastic. He forced my kind of interest. I watch The Bachelor with her, but somehow that seems more manly than you are watching attractive girls of 25 vying for the affection of one "dude" instead of the contrary.

Having said that the finale of The Bachelorette was a shock to most. The beauty DeAnna Pappas chose professional snowboarder Jesse Csincsak (no that is not a typo).

It 'was an end rather satisfying to me because Jesse is a guy's guy. Jason Mesnick, a second place if you will, was the handsome guy.

Jason was actually a nice guy. He came with baggage that included a divorce and a young son. This is par for the course today and really do not think that played much in the decision to Deanna.

My wife was in shock, when the choice of Deanna became evident. He was very disappointed that she did not choose the "cute".

For me DeAnna deserves congratulations for that decision. It is not all it seems.

Sometimes it was inconvenient and Jesse appeared nervous as he went out of his comfort zone in what appeared to be an honest attempt to do what it takes to impress Deanna. This showed me genuine concern and desire. That says a lot more than some smooth operator that uses the same lines that he has used countless times with countless other women.

Of course Jesse "bumps" fists instead of shaking hands, and uses words like "rad". And '26, he's a snowboarder, who cares?

Jason certainly would offer stability, security, love and a 401k heavy. Jesse has offered a somewhat 'unpredictable, a little' excitement, love, and more than a shot of reasonable financial security.

I can not fault her for her decision. Ultimately, it is up to each person who will take on "hopes" to spend the rest of their lives with. It has nothing to do with us or what we think.

The moral of this story is: "You can not judge a book by its cover." ......