Thursday, July 26, 2012

Do you want to stop suffering in your relationships?


It is impossible not to suffer in the relationships we establish?

Yes of course it's possible. But it does not happen by chance is necessary to make a path of personal growth. Namely, we have to turn his gaze within. And only then we can find the answers.

These questions have answers only in solitude, reflection on the acts of observation of ourselves. This is only possible to stop hurting.

Suffering is a condition imposed by a society that worships the victims. While in a condition of "no power" to "poor", then you have the attention of many people pity you, but above all, your self-pity.

To stop suffering is necessary to consider other aspects of life:

- Take your life in your hands. No one can make one for you. Only you can do it. Nobody wants your welfare only yourself.

- Do not focus your well-being of others. No one can rescue you from that condition. People can help but no one is going to take commitment on your own life.

- Take action on what you accomplish in your life. Stop thinking that when you have something or not be happy and you will no longer suffer.

- Responsibility for your own feelings, thoughts, actions and consequences of your actions.

Stop suffering is a matter of decision and choice.

So it's up to you and nobody else. Suffering especially in the love life is one of the most painful. The suffering is unnecessary. Pain is inevitable in life. It helps us grow to become aware of and contact with the human part of ourselves.

Just a matter of understanding and comprehending your own way of being, your character, your personality and above all to realize that you have the opportunity to rebuild your life when you choose.

Ana Giorgana

www.cecreto.com

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